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writes:Hello, I've not long split with my boyfriend who i loved so much. (Roughly about a month ago after being with him for 10 months), he left me as he said he couldn't do it anymore but when together he has also lied to me all the time and said nasty things to his friends. We still spoke after the split and still speak now during the past 4 weeks. He tells me he can change not only because he has to but because he wants to and that he wants me back as he needs me, realizing now that he'd lost me, but i can't trust him after how badly he had hurt me. He begged to come back. Problem is when i was really upset with the whole break up, struggling to get over him his (EX)-friend started talking to me a lot and we got really close. He would comfort me and said i could talk to him always if i was feeling down. He has liked me for a long time and since i became single he's became very close to me. We talk, kiss and cuddle but we're not together. I have really fallen for this guy he's been very sweet and has helped me a lot but, my Ex boyfriend is still in my head, i miss him and still have those feelings but i can't trust him anymore, i want to be with his mate but i wouldn't mind giving my ex a second chance as i always had those feelings.I'am really stuck, i'm terrified of getting hurt again but i miss my ex but then do i forget my ex and focus on this new guy who cares for me? I don't want to lead them both on and hurt them,i have never been like this before and i feel so upset that it had come to this. i would really appreciate any advise thank you so much for any help! x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2011): To be honest I wouldn't choose either yet, the ex has let you down badly in the past, lying,saying nasty things etc and it would cause alot of problems starting a relationship with this friend
Why not just be single for a while, get the ex out of your system and maybe in a few months, if this friend is still around, it could work out. At the moment your pretty vulnerable so its not a great time to be making choices..
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